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What to Include in your Maid of Honor Speech

Tradition holds that the Maid of Honor is always a treasured role in a wedding. It can be the sister, a cousin and often times it is the bosom friend of the bride. It is enough trouble to mother over the bride over the days leading to the wedding.  You can pick up after her, you can be the shoulder to cry on and more importantly you can be the rock she can lean on when stress falls upon her.

Public speaking in general is one of the greatest fears of man. But anyone can compose and deliver an excellent speech aided by the right tools. Knowing what to include in your speech is key to the composition but its delivery makes the prose into poetry. Continue reading

Better than I Love You

To some people including myself, hearing “I miss you” is far better than hearing “I love you.” The sheer thought of having someone long for you or that you consume his every single thought even if you have just part ways is just incredible. If you are on the other side of the boat though, you for sure know that the aching feeling of wanting to see or hold someone is just unbearably hard to translate into words. Continue reading

Scrapbooking Your Memories

I love preserving memories. In the Philippines, scrapbooking hasn’t yet reached the same level of mania as it has in western countries. I, myself, have never been much of a scrap booker. Only because when I think of scrapbooks, it sets off my gag reflex with mental images of old photo albums overly embellished with laces and pasta shells.  But I walked into a scrapbook store a couple of days ago and was totally wowed by all of the scrapbook trappings they had. Continue reading

The Perils of Dating an Artist

I dated an artist, not so long ago. And by artist, I mean progeny to a legendary professor at a top University of Fine Arts in the Philippines, borne from a long line of artists, surrounded by a myriad of friends, all of which are artists. In short, the stereotypical artist.

When we first met, our discussion stumbled upon what we believed to be greatest art works of all time. We went from Dali’s painting of “The Persistence of Memory”, Matisse’ “Flowers of St. Henri”, Cezanne’s painting of “Still Life” to American Pop-Culture portrait paintings. For a minute the artist’s name escaped both our memory banks. At that time we found it comical to forget, amongst others, the central figure of Pop-culture, household name to our generation. And just like in the movies, as if on-queue we blurted out his name in chorus, “Andy Warhol”.  That moment, sparks flew and the rest was history. Continue reading

Maintaining Relationships Through Gift List

Special occasions are made special by the presence of people that we love and care for. They celebrate with us during our milestones in life by expressing their congratulations and happiness for our achievements. Besides their presence, they may give us gifts to mark the occasion, gifts that are thoughtful and well-meant. We do the exact same thing for the people that we love since we know how it feels to be appreciated.

Sometimes though, we forget special occasions due to stress from work or other obligations. The people concerned may feel hurt and neglected; they may even think that we are not interested in keeping the relationship. Of course we know that it’s not true, but just the same, it might be difficult to explain what happened. We didn’t mean to forget, say, a friend’s birthday, there was no malice intended—but the relationship will become strained and at the worst, it will be broken. Continue reading

Giving Flowers to Men

Traditionally, males give flowers to females as a symbol of their love and affection. The delicate form, the subtle scent, and the pure color of any flower can liven up a room—or a heart. Giving flowers is indeed one of the most romantic gestures a man can offer to the special woman in his life not only as a sign of love but also of gratitude and appreciation. Continue reading